Every day we meet new peoples. Every day we meet our near and dear ones. We have our own adjectives for every people. My mother is very angry, my brother is very good, and my new colleague is mysterious. We know a lot about the person who is well known to us. But how much accurate is taking a sudden decision about an unknown person!
The tradition of visiting bride’s or bride groom’s home to observe them and finalize the wedding is still here in our country, in our society. Perhaps the way is changed a little with the flow of time. Now it has come to restaurant from the home of bride by arranging a huge program. Boy and girl are meeting separately to clarify their choice. But the viewpoint of the judgment of quality is still in the same old way. When a man is looking at for bride door to door, we are taking it easily. But when a girl is doing something like refusing the men who come to look her, then we and our society think that the girl has some problems. A man can marry late for his study, his responsibilities of family or he does not support the system of looking the bride, he could come to fulfill the mind of his family. But when a girl wishes to marry late for her study, responsibilities of family or disliking the proposing man then it would be a reviled offense.
Out of sight out of mind, it is a very popular in relationships. Your favorite person lives out of town. You can only meet on occasions. At first you were together, later for job or may be studies you guys have to live separate. For jobs or higher studies you are frequently visiting abroad. For this instance you cannot even meet on special occasions even. This separation can be for 6 months, a year or may be for more than a year. Now as slowly you are getting out of sight, is it getting out of mind as well? Someone may be saying no instantly. Someone may not be saying at an instant thinking a bit. Some people may be experienced by living at this situation. May be someone’s yet to face it or someone may be going through it. But one thing is very true that is the experiences you face with your loved one’s may not be as same as other relationships. Because your love is a bit of different kind, your love needs a bit more care.
It is true that facebook has become one of the important ways of communication nowadays. Writing letters to friends and relatives was the most common way of communication a few days ago, even people rush to other’s house to convey any news. Then technology gives us telephone. Modern technology makes it easy and cheap through cell phone. The revolution of communication is also true for the relationship of love. Writing letters has been turned into virtual relationship. Mobile facebook is fulfilling our need of sending messages. There is no opportunity to say about forgetting one’s birthday because facebook is reminding you about your friend’s birthday. Now it is difficult to find a friend who does not have a facebook account. All these are advantages of facebook but I am sure that the lists of the disadvantqages of facebook will not be so short. Facebook has brought so many embarrassments besides saving our time. The most common and vicious names are account hacking and opening fake ID.